Customized Love.......

Every one have their own definition of love..... some exclusive thought, some unique concept of expressing, some unusual desires... But do we ever think that this all have a vice-versa effect....

someone some where is also knitting his own dreams according to his desires, his wishes, his values...

But this what love is ? what we are expecting from our lives, a new breeze of feelings or a customized love essence.... Think once, what will cherish you more, a surprise from your partner or a predefined gift which you already listed on ur day one date... how u accept from ur partner that he will be exactly same to ur desires when u are not programmed according to his commands...

Make be he will not able to quote a poetry, not able to bring flowers every day, not able to mention you that he missed you every passed second, even not able to wear what you want to see on him...but he is a man, a man who make you happy every single day since he came to ur life.... protect you from the world, and most importantly give you an opportunity to discover a new feel, a new touch, a new meaning of love which u never ever experience before... he make ur every new day actually "new". Why to regret if he is not alike what you had dreamed.... he is someone of his own.

Being in love its not ur aim to hurt him, analyse him, change him and customized him according to ur wish list... love is to give him smile when he make u happy by his work, yelling him when he make you mad, tell him how much u miss him when he is not around you... He is ur man he deserve all what he gave u in life show him ur actual soal, show him how u are different from others, show him how you give him a new shade in his life, make him realize the emptiness without you... Treat him like a human nor a programmed device, feel him explore him...

Love is a journey of two in which every day is for exploring a new world rather to walk on a pre determined paths.... Some times you feel that he is not perfect but he makes u perfect when he is with you...and that's what matters more... Love him because he is he...not a commanded robot because a robot can be programmed by any one but he will be urs and urs forever...

Love at Second sight.....

Feeling of first love is different...it gives u a new life, a feeling that is beyond this world, beyond the limits , beyond the imagination....every day is takes a new shivering to your soal.... but is the feel relates with only First love... is there a difference between First love and Love?

Love is what which give us a meaning to live, a reason to smile, a reason to trust, a belief in God... but does it all deals with first time...

Why don't we feel the same intensity with the one who came next to your life after the one who left you with any reason.... Why we compare the one with the first person of your life though he has his own identity.... is this his fault that he came second to your life...

The person who accepts you with your past, a person who give you support when u left alone, a person who gives his shoulders to cry..his nights when u felt sleepless, his happiness when u lost in darks... This person is much more stronger than the person who came to your life before and left you just with some excuses...

Its not easy for him when u sometimes call him with your X's name.. when unintentionally compare his feelings with your past's ones.... when you still cry for your first love... he still there to support you, protect you,hold you in his arms to give your smile, your life back... But what u give him back is just a question that " Why don't I get my first love?"....

What about the guy who support you when "HE" left you alone in this life... Why this person loves you when he knows that he will never replace your past.....

He is the Angel..he is your protector, he is your support machine..he came in your life when your most precious one left you alone...so he will much more precious for you... trust him...feel him...give him love which he deserves the most.... and he will give you his life....he will never leaves you alone because he seen you in that condition when he enters in your life...

For me he is more "precious" to your life because he give you your second life unconditionally to get the love back in return..., a reason to live again..to smile again...to love again.... Don't let him go... he is everything... Love is possible even in Second Sight.... because Love is Love...it never be counted.....