Friday, April 27, 2012

Wait that never ends........

When two people fall in love words hardly needed......But when there is a one sided attraction, I mentioned the term attraction because love needs always to hearts two be one... But when there is one sided attraction all our attempts are useless, it better to get out of this useless phase, I know its not easy to except your whole hearten relation a one sided nightmare but as early we except this its easy to move on and live a normal life.
                       Rishab and Ridhima are college friends they have an extra ordinaory chemistry with each other, both started looking each other, gradually they fall in love, Rishab is a practical man like other after a time he started feeling that Ridhima is good to be entertainment package only , she will not prove a complete package of beauty, intelligence and the most important one wealth........ I used a materialistic word "package" because now days love is not enough to live a life every thing is needed to survive, but girls are girls we cant help them out, though girls are also very practical in their life, but still god gave them a child heart that when they fall in true love they forgot all terms, all resolution, all boundaries they just want to be with their love and can fight with whole world to win their love, but some time they have to fight with their love only......... and then they loose, not only the love but their identity, their strength, their trust everything, its easy to fight with world but not with the one you love........ same thing happen with Ridhima she became totally addicted to Rishab, she don't know how to live a single moment without him but not able to express Rishab, she tried everything to get her love back, every single day she wake up with a hope that today Rishab will come to her and say I need you in my life but every night she face the disappointment, her mind says that he will not come back but at the very moment her heart remembers the words of Rishab which he use to say "Please don't leave me ever" .......Day spend months gone Ridhima compromises with her life, she is normal now but one thing that never change in her is that she will not trust anyone now, even one her own because now she feels every one come to her only to leave her when she need him at most............
This is about Rishab and Ridhima, but most of girls and even boys have similar stories, but there is big truth behind it that you will not force or make somebody to get love with you until and unless he or she wants to...... so its useless to waste your time and heart in these relation.
 "The one who love you will never make you cry and if he does than that cry will be the over reaction of your happiness."

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Be honest..........???


In every relationship trust is priority.....but how can we build the term called "Trust" by maintaining faith with him in present relationship or by honestly presenting your past.... But is this really work for a successful relationship ?? Is your partner ready to digest your past?? Will he strong enough to overlook your sins of past and look forward for a successful bonding ahead...
Snigdha and shantanu met each other when they already broke up with their past relationship, they feel a awesome bonding and attraction, gradually they came closer and look for their future, they discussed almost everything about their past except some weak moments, one day just to prove her love and faithfulness Snigdha discussed a weak moment of her life as she is confident enough that Shantanu will understand. But she forgot that how broad minded shantanu is after all he has a "Men's heart" . He forgive Snigdha but from that day their bonding is changed the lightness and freshness which they feel in the relationship is vanished now, what left is just comparisons, suspect ions, empty silence, boredom and end of the day "fights"... The beauty of their relationship is they are "best pals" but now are another next door compromising couples who blame each other for all the mishappenings of their lives. And finally one day they decided to get out of their fake relationship.
Once they shared awesome moments of love, respect, maturity, understanding and over all friendship which is priority for any relationship, but now its all over. All left is emptiness.... Again they are on the same lonely path from where they started their journey of love....
This is not only a story of Snigdha and Shantanu its happens most of the time when we try to be over honest about our past..... But still its a big question that is it good to tell each n everything to your partner or leave our past in graves to start a new phase of life.... What if your partner came to know from others regarding it.. Then its result will be more dangerous than what happen to Snigdha... In both the cases our love loose... So what if we love our partner more than our past he will always lives a comparative life....
Love is a fresh feeling that have its own wings.... If we not compare our love with love of a mother, a sister, a daughter.....why we always compare it with X partners..... Every relation has its own definition and will never overlap with one another.....
You made my life once again.....
You walked in with a new breeze
You touched my heart once again....
I never realized how dead I am
Until you teach me to breath once again....
I am searching answer for my life..
But you gave me a new question to ask once again....