From the day I enter as an angel with my tiny feet in our home,
I became my mother’s life, my fathers dream, my brother’s doll. The time get
feather and I turn into a young ambitious girl. A girl from the era of self
dependence, confidence and equality. At this age of life every girl has her own
dream own expectation from others and specially from the one whom she tie up
one day… so even I have , I am a girl a common girl, a girl that lives inside
you, nearby you or somewhere around you…..
I am not a one who have a dream of prince charming who will
come on white horse and takes me with him, I live in a age of technology, BBM ,
Wechat , Whtsapp where before meeting face to face we have loads to discuss on
virtual media, and I don’t think its wrong after all its just give us a safe
way to understand each other.
I believe that the one who will touch my life should be
smart enough to handle it. Being a 21st centaury girl I have my own life which I will not dedicate to
you rather I will share it with you I want more to be your pal, your partner
than a dependable wife who will just be operated by your commands and programs.
From older time girls are treated as emotional machine who take decision by
heart , yes I have heart but some grey matter too, I use my brain too every
time so now there is no chance to fool me around by a melodrama or emotional
attyachar.
Now days due to spread of education we are intellectual,
talented , and career oriented but than too be in profession is totally my
decision, I will decide that what I choose after marriage a job oriented lady
or a perfect homemaker. Its all about my time management and I am smart enough
to handle my priorities.
Girls are brought up with the fact that we should be
efficient too in our home making, yes we are but it doesn’t mean that we are
robots even we need rest and over all we love to be helped and its feel awesome
when you help us. Its our home so we can share this too. A research proved that
the couple who work at home together more often are more emotionally attached
than others.
I am mannered enough to respect others but respect should be
earned not been forced. In terms of it I will not remain a dummy if I will not
get the same values from your part which I deliver. Being a women I m not to be
treated as speechless doll who except all goods and bad from your side, I have
a right to fight if something went wrong.
And at last, I need your love and care, a small hug which
fresh in up a day, a motivation of your smile which gives me strength to live
more for you, care more for you.
I left my home, my childhood, my toys my memories and came
to your place just for you because I trust you more than my life , I believe
that you are a god’s angel who made by him only for me and I for you.
This trust is my life and this trust is my power capsules
which give me strength to accept that yes “I can do anything for you”.
That all I want….
I am the one who breath, who speak, who smile, who cry..
But you treat me a doll, a toy, why!!
I am a gift of god who blossom your life..
Treat me as your partner not just a commanded wife!!
Just give me the trust that you will forever be mine..
And I will be yours till shade and shine.
